|what you said was:||"i don't respect women who don't respect themselves"|
|what you meant was:||"i and society as a whole hold women up to ridiculous respectability standards directly relating to the "purity" of said women while hypersexualizing them at the same time and if you are a woman and don't fit my awkward monolith of criteria then i refuse to acknowledge your humanity"|
|what i heard was:||"hi i'm a misogynist piece of shit, please punch me in my face"|
|me when my friends are sad:||insert 6 page text here of advice and telling them how perfect they are|
|them when im sad:||oh sorry|
You don’t need to try and make him out to be a good person to like him. That’s the great thing with fiction. It’s okay to care about bad people. But it’s important to admit they are bad people.
ohmygod can everyone sTOP THAT